Feminine Personal power is never fully developed. Like your body, it needs exercise. Not a couple of times a week. Instead, conscious training several times a day. To develop habits that ingrain beliefs, values and help you become at one with yourself. When you know yourself, value yourself and stay true to you, you’ll find meaningful purpose in all areas of life. At the core of the true you is the ability to bring the best out in those around you.
That’s the makings of a true feminine leader. Leading from a place of wisdom, and her heart, not just using positional power alone.
You can have positional power and personal power, but you cannot be an effective leader without feminine personal power.
3 Tips to Boost Your Feminine Personal Power
- Strive to learn more
Commit to consistent learning and be broad about the topics you study. Study life and attend seminars and workshops to build your expertise. Most important is to learn more about yourself continually. Try new things, experiment, take some risks and put yourself into situations that make you feel vulnerable. Go to the cinema after work instead of feeling the need to have drinks with your colleagues, just because you feel the need to fit in. Do what feels right by you. If I hear about a workshop or seminar that tweaks my interest – then I know I’m being guided to attend when I feel the flutter in my tummy.
- Practice Mindful Gratitude
Practicing gratitude is among the most positive habits you can develop. Keeping a gratitude journal can serve you in multiple ways. You’ll feel better, sleep better, eat healthier, have stronger relationships with everyone important in your life, and you’ll feel happier for being grateful for everything you have surrounding you.
You don’t ALWAYS have to journal every day. Just make the commitment to yourself that you can keep and honor that. You also don’t have to journal pages and pages. Sometimes I sit down to my journal and a couple of paragraphs come out or even a poem. When I feel I’m done then I give thanks and pack my journal away until next time.
- Own Your Authenticity
Authenticity is about being true to you. It is only possible when you have in-depth knowledge and know your strengths and weaknesses. You will begin to act with deliberate intentions that are in line with your moral compass. You will know your place and when to delegate and how to go about using your relationship skills to get people to do things for you that you know they’ll do a better job than you could if you were to try.
That’s where coming from a place of feminine personal power to influence others will help push you toward reaching your goals and dreams faster, because you will have strong relationships with people who value your input, expertise, trust your credibility and will help you when you ask, without hesitation. You can only be yourself, everyone else is taken.
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